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Apr 08 2024

The Keys to Sexuality and the Evolved Threesome (It's not what you think it is)

I look at sex as an extension of sensuality. Sex, for me, is not about a mechanical act but a seduction of your senses—a lifting while simultaneously falling. And the only reason you know you're falling is because of the weightless feel of it all—this whirlwind of sensation.
 
It's funny the juxtaposed dichotomy that has been my shaping sexual experiences. On the one hand, I did not lose my virginity until the ripe old age of 18, but on the other hand, I discovered that rubbing my pussy at the edge of a chair or couch would captivate my sense from about age 3 on. Honestly, I am guessing at the age cause I don't ever remember it not feeling good. After the edges of chairs, I discovered the water jets at the pool and would hang out at the water's edge for a suspiciously long time. Which, of course, led to having one of the jets graze my butthole. No trauma, by the way, just pure experimentation on what felt good.
 
If you read about my torso doll fantasy post, you'll know that starting around age 5, an older girlfriend and I, during sleepovers, would act out our fantasies while rubbing our pussies on each other's legs. Again, super innocent and simply a mutual satisfaction thing - and definitely not a lesbian thing. Neither one of us fantasized about a lesbian relationship. Instead, we were transporting ourselves to a scenario that we liked, both of us role-playing and using physical contact to bring us to a wonderful climax.
 
Barbara (the girl I got off with) later on discovered not only that her parents had a dildo that, for some reason, was kept in her dad's satchel (yes, satchel and not briefcase), but would then sneak it out of his bag and we would use it in her pussy. She wouldn't let me put it in mine, no matter how much I asked. So, I learned to push it in and out of hers. I was fascinated because while we had been role-playing for a while at this point, this was the first time I actually got to observe how the pussy reacted to the dildo stimuli. I'd watch her face, her nipples, the way her pussy looked around the dildo, and how the dildo would twitch in my hand when I would French kiss her while moving the dildo in and out of her.
 
I look back at that time with fondness and have to admit it probably shaped my approach to sex. I learned three things during those pre-teen years: 1. If you rely on simple mechanics (like rubbing against an edge), it takes FOREVER to cum. I mean, I could be doing that for hours upon hours before I would have the satisfaction of a release. 2. Even with the aid of a fantasy, having another human being around once again made the climax that much better and easier to achieve, like using each other's legs instead of a chair, or kissing while using the dildo. 3. Interacting and enjoying sensuality with a person of the same sex makes you about as gay as living in a garage makes you a car. Or sticking a cucumber in my pussy makes me a vegetarian. lol.
 
Fast forward a few decades. It was a one-night stand that opened my eyes to additional extraordinary stimuli. It was the first time I had gotten my ass licked!! OMFG, I came so hard I forgot my name for a moment. While I had had a cock up my ass a half dozen times or so, I didn't realize that just like licking a pussy, sucking a cock, or regular tab "a" in slot "b" penetration, there was a good way and a meh way to do things in that area. It quickly became crystal clear that I just had not had a talented and knowledgeable partner who knew how to skillfully stimulate this typically reserved for "exit" hole until that night. After all, I had never been opposed to experimenting with what made a person feel good and I had given it the ole college try on a number of occasions already with a male friend or two. Several evenings pre-virginity loss came to mind.
 
Well, I wish I could send him a thank you note because that one action opened the door to adding an entirely new set of tools to my belt. Not that he did anything other than lick my ass, but now my curious brain started experimenting. I have always been fascinated with the male anatomy. Watching how the skin on the balls moves like a cephalopod with a lick or a touch of breath. A caress here, a gentle nibble on the thigh there. Inserting the tip in my mouth and having the tongue just move in wave-like motions against it—the difference between a broad, soft tongue enveloping versus a harder, constricted tongue flicking. The feel of long hair gliding over the skin of the stomach or inner thighs as fingertips stroke the balls with a barely there touch and the mouth moving in a slow, excruciating rhythm along the length of a very hard cock.
 
And then, while licking the cock from the outside, the tongue explores further down. Licking the balls from taint to tip in slow strokes. Cradling them with a soft and broad tongue. The strokes start further and further down until ... whoa .. what was that? This feels fucking amazing! The tongue starts working on the asshole with an oral talent usually reserved for a pussy. The hand works to keep the shaft occupied and does a really good job of edging to near sensory overload, but pulling back each time the edge comes close because while that climax feels awesome, there is another "double penetration" that feels even better! To do that, the mouth and hand have to switch positions. With the mouth now enveloping the shaft like a pussy and the hand gently teasing the asshole before diving in and playing with the prostate. There is no sensation quite like it, and wow, in the words of 2001 Space Oddysy, you can see stars. I have never seen so much cum from one person as during that particular move, and it makes perfect sense when you break it down biologically.
 
A cock is like a tree in that while the visible part is on the outside, a lot of what feeds it is underneath. And if the nerves get stimulated not just from the outside shaft but also from the inside prostate, much like the wall that is shared between pussy and ass and stimulated during double penetration, the sensation is mindblowing.
 
Of course, ever being the scientific brain I am, I decided to test this further. My second husband was the first person to ask to be pegged. Up until then, I never knew there was such a thing. I was happy to oblige - with mixed results. The problem was that the strap-on was inanimate, and it was challenging to maneuver and figure out how far back I could go before pushing back in, etc. At least when I am holding a dildo in my hand, I can feel how the ass (or pussy) responds. I also can visually see and align better. But with a strap-on, there is no sensation on my end that I can use to gauge how well things are going, and the whole process becomes kind of clumsy. But he did love the feeling of the hips pressing up against his ass, so I came up with an idea. I hired a male escort to come and join us for a threesome. It was the best idea I ever came up with!
 
So, let me preface that I have been in more than my share of threesomes before and after this event. I can tell you with all sincerity that while the press releases from the American porn industry would have you think that the MFF is the best threesome for a heterosexual male's pleasure, and therefore the only socially acceptal one, in actuality, it is the MMF threesome that becomes the better option for straight men. And yes, as a side benefit it is the better option for women, too. It is an all-around win! If you are going for pure carnal pleasure, sensory overload, and the best orgasms you have ever had in life, MMF fits that bill - most men know it - they just don't always voice it.
 
But back to that night. So, this gorgeous guy who looks like a Greek god shows up and is not effeminate in any form or fashion. He is a top, an alpha, if I ever saw one, and just as comfortable interacting with me as my husband. It was perfection! We did so many crazy things that night! First, my husband wanted to watch him fuck me, but not to the point of either one of us climaxing. He was getting hard with what he saw, so he took the "bull's" place in my pussy. As he was fucking me missionary style, the "bull" saddled up behind him after oiling up his covered cock and expertly pushed his cock into my husband's ass while he was in my pussy. I felt my husband's cock jump and double in hardness - and within a matter of minutes, he pushed a jet of cum into my pussy like he had never done before. As a result, I came like I had never done before. This was the absolute hottest situation I had been in. Not only was it out of this world for my husband, but the visual of seeing someone on top, feeling the press of bodies, and how much harder my husband was as a result made the experience addicting to me. All three of us took a bit of a break and just enjoyed each other's company. I have a habit of massaging people while they are naked next to me, and while we were talking, I was massaging my husband's legs and chest, etc. Knowing his way around a body, the bull also decided to jump in, and we gave my husband a four-handed massage. He was basking in the attention and the sensuality of it all, and his cock started to get hard again. An unusual thing because typically he was a one and done guy. After a bit of this, I helped put another condom on the bull and pushed his cock into my husband's ass. This time, it was my turn to sit back and watch the show. It was such a fantastic turn-on! My husband was looking at me while this gorgeous specimen of a man was fucking his ass. Now, while the prostate is a fantastic sexual stimulus, by itself, it can only do so much. I have discovered that a combination of front and back stimulation creates that near-instantaneous WOW moment. So I jumped back in, only this time using my mouth on my husband's cock, while the two of them were fingering my pussy in unison. Holy Moly! Once again, it took almost no time for the climax to happen, and I was drowned in my husband's cum shooting down my throat.
 
It was such a great experience that we did this a few more times, and my husband was able to suck him off and get to fulfill that longtime fantasy. While I am no longer married, our divorce had nothing to do with the sex and definitely nothing to do with my husband's sexuality, which was and is firmly planted on the hetero side to this day. What I find fascinating is how many men have this fantasy but rarely speak about it to their partners or friends (outside of myself) and how absolutely fulfilling it is for them when they can experiment with it. Be it getting penetrated or doing a double penetration of a woman with another guy. The sensuality is intoxicating. I am getting wet just writing this and thinking about it.
 
Since my husband, I have been fortunate in getting to provide just such experiences on more than a handful of occasions. It's that control/ pleaser side of me again that loves taking charge in order to show how much I like THIS. Ok .. I have to close here. I have been playing with my nipples without realizing just thinking about the next MMF threesome, and I need both hands for this next part. See you soon!